I guess I've done a bit of what could be called dates in Second Life, though the purpose has usually been for just me and a lady friend to just simply relax and have a pleasant time rather than serious thoughts of romance down the road. Sometimes it goes well, a pleasant dance to nice music, a walk in a park, a sim tour on an automated vehicle together, etc., and both of us part ways on a good note.
One time recently, things didn't go so well.
I had come across one girl by chance encounter, and we became friends. We met a few more times. Then one day she invited me to a sim in which the area's name suggested a bit of dating by more serious couples was done here, "Cuddle Cove." As it turned out, a band had come to have a concert, and she thought I might like some time here.
We took a try at one of the dance poseballs, but with all the people in the area, she crashed, and took quite a while to become visible again, which was a little frustrating. But still, we were about to give it another try.
Then a mutual friend of ours came in. She greeted him, "Hi ." , then a second later I did as well, "Hi ." She then typed "Don't mock me!" Puzzled, I asked, "What's wrong?"
(girl) : *slaps Bixyl*
Bixyl: Ow. What was that for?
(girl) : You mocked me!
Bixyl: What?! How could I have mocked you?
(girl) : You said hello to him the same way I did.
She then went to the guy, who had stood in front of us not knowing what the heck was going on, and asked him to dance. They then went to a nearby set of dance poseballs. Confused, there was nothing better for me to do than walk away, porting out after a moment to think.
She then went to the guy, who had stood in front of us not knowing what the heck was going on, and asked him to dance. They then went to a nearby set of dance poseballs. Confused, there was nothing better for me to do than walk away, porting out after a moment to think.
I guess she was looking for an excuse to dance with him instead, though she could simply have asked me if I minded, which I wouldn't have. Oh well, such is life, or rather Second Life.
Bixyl Shuftan